I Don't Really Like My Parents Because They Don't Accept Me For Who I Am

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    Buddy never really liked his parents, and they never truly got along. They argued and disagreed and butted heads over almost everything. They didn't see eye-to-eye on politics, to religion, to lifestyle and how to raise good healthy happy kids.
    Buddy is an atheist, while his parents are very devout Muslims. Buddy is very liberal, while his parents are very conservative. And, Buddy is also unapologetically gay, while his parents, not surprisingly, are extremely homophobic.
    But, even though on the inside it was really clear that he didn't get along with his parents, he was never very public or vocal about his disagreements with his parents.He still needed a roof over his head, and food to eat, and money in his pocket, and he was afraid that if he shared who he really was and what he really believed too strongly they would kick him out of the house, maybe even disown him.
    Because of that, he formed what looked like a good relationship with his parents, but it was totally fake and artificial - on the inside, he just didn't get along with them. They saw him as being practically perfect, a good and trustworthy kid, but Buddy saw that his parents were really flawed.
    His mom liked to hold grudges, was very quick to judge people, and liked to enforce really old fashioned gender roles, like boys should do yard work and take out the trash and that girls only belonged in the kitchen and were destined to become subservient housewives. And his father was so invested and distracted by his work that he never formed and real bonds with his children.
    He was also upset at the way his four sisters were treated. His parents wouldn't allow his sisters to have any friends over. They weren't allowed to have phones, or do any extra curricular activities, or drive once they reached the age where they could legally get their licenses.
    And it was even worse with Buddy, especially when he tried to come out to them and tell them he was gay - twice. The first time, his parents begged him to date girls because they saw his coming out as a real threat to them. The second time he tried they just threw out a slew of insults and homophobic falsehoods ranging from the idea that gay people were in fact mentally ill, to the idea that it was a simple choice and he was just making the wrong one. They threatened to disown him and told him he would be a failure in life unless he "fixed himself."
    This all made him so unhappy and he imagined that he would be under the control of his parents for the rest of his life. So, he felt he had to continue to pretend to be the perfect little straight Muslim boy in the house, dating girls and praying and the rest. He didn't think much of it, had been doing it pretty much his whole life, but when he finally confided in his friends they saw it for what it was, miserable and very, very unhealthy. They asked him to imagine what he would be and how he would feel if he was far enough away from them that they couldn't watch his every move, and judge and control him.
    That was a turning point for him and, realizing his parents were more like prison guards than anything else, he thought of the farthest place he could go without them having a negative impact on him and still be successful and thrive as a young gay man.
    After doing a little bit of research he concluded that California would be the best place for him -- a thriving LGBT community, a ton of diversity and acceptance, and on the other side of the country from his toxic family life and parents. So, he applied to a few schools in California and, was accepted to attend UCLA! It was one of the happiest moments of his life.
    His parents were hesitant about it at first, because of how far away it was, but they were happy to have him go to such a highly acclaimed school - that's mostly what they cared about.
    Since moving to Los Angeles Buddy has never been happier. He is part of a really diverse community with amazing friends, endless support, and a great education. Even though he returns home on Holidays and has to pretend, just like he used to, he is so happy to be out of that toxic house and on his own.
    His next wish is for his sisters, that they will recognize the truth about their parents, follow in his footsteps, and escape!
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      2. Gucci Critter

        This video spoke to me too. I am an atheist and have been for 10 years. I still live with my parents and my father has been anything but accepting. He is very Christian and and very politically and socially conservative. I go to a college but live at home. Several years ago he sent me to a Christian summer camp for a week. All of the kids there bullied me because I am an atheist. During that time I had some very dark thoughts. I find that Jordan Peterson's online videos and lectures have helped and made me stronger. I can definitely relate to your story and hope you are doing well. Peace.

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      5. Jesse Jennings

        If your parents didnt want a gay son they shouldnt of had your genitals tortured at birth.

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    3. Wijdan Alh

      If you say bad thing about Muslim I will murder you Ha ha ha ha Ha ha ha and I don’t care if you die or not because you are the shame for Muslim a person who is a Muslim knocker on who know everything about Muslim and he talked bad about Muslim and gay and their parents you should be ashamed for yourself we don’t except in Muslim people talk about the religion like that

    4. Will Conner

      What a disappointing kid. Doesnt get something so he has to act out every time. Parents were way more supportive than most, when he tried to villainize them every step of the way.

    5. FALCON _V

      Fuckin homo....

    6. ShannonDaBest155

      Hey I really want to share my story, how do I do it?

    7. Jenny Fisher

      Good job getting #1 on trending!

    8. Wijdan Alh

      You know what’s funny you talk bad about your mom will get birth to you your dad give you money and work to your family have a good life and you saying that they raise me wrong I want to be gay and blah blah I’m not saying bad thing about gay people go their own religion their own thinking I don’t care about that I’m caring about your emotional OK you need to know what you should do a new shit what you should not do OK focus on your life and I wanna tell yourFact you search on GoogleIf you’re going to be a gay there is a bad thing that going to happen to her you going to get sick you going to get bad things and like you can have a crush but I don’t tell me I’m going to marry this man I’m gonna have a boyfriend no this is disgusting for Muslim and you know that you know you’re a virgin study but you’re a little little bit OK does a bad thing about Muslim that’s a bad thing about your parents

    9. King Oreo

      I’m a Muslim but my family isn’t like this This is an old fashioned Muslim family

    10. Tony G

      Now that is sad. I never go to the trending area of GR-news, and the tube knows that. I just did and the #1 video is this, what I hate about my parents. Point, this is why I don't come here to see what the crazys are up to. Not my world 😎

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    13. SJ. 757

      Wow just bcz it mentions Muslims this is trending y y’all always trying to make us look bad like I’m sick of it if this was reversed and his parents were strict Christians this wouldn’t be trending. 😒 and what an ungrateful kid there’s parents out there who physically abuse their children and kids who don’t even have access to water he should rly be more great full and portray his views when he’s acc paying for where he lives and all that shiz. Like saying he hates them behind their backs is just nasty.

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    15. Ari Nator

      I mean he can’t have kids (only adopt) and he’s not going to heaven it’s a sin but sure even though i don’t like gay,lesbian, etc it does not give me the right to judge them, like who am i to judge? So i’m just saying u don’t have to like gays lesbians etc but one thing u should do is respect everyone

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    18. Al.Capone

      Well that guy if it true story for sure yeah he can fix he self

    19. hussain production

      This is teaching us to hate our people and religion

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    22. Wijdan Alh

      OK this is bullshit I don’t care about where your mom do to your sisters because this is your mom OK and if you are really Muslim you know what the god say I’m cool on you know what your religion want you know what harm and what is Helen like don’t tell me I wanna be gay and my parents said no OK but your religion is Muslim you can biggie no don’t tell me your mom said no tell you to clean tastic the trash so what you want your mom to clean the vacuum wash the dishes cook raise a child pregnant get birth and your dad ‘s work all the time no they need time for the soul do need to raise yours good sick of this shit out of your head

    23. SkyDose YT

      *I am a muslim and my parents doesnt do that, they allow me to have phones from the age of 10 and they allow me to have friends outside of school and girls doesnt have to just be in the kitchen they can have friends and stuff they can have a job or anything they have their own rights, your parents are just weird. I am now 14 and having a good life* (Message for Racist and dumb people)

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      This is about a girl who's been destroyed by her family: gr-news.com/online/βίντεο-oqOlFjuHSrg.html

    25. Asterión B

      It's not about some parents being kinda conservative. It's about a fucking intolerant and hateful religion like most of the religions are .

    26. Trey Fontenet

      You seem like an annoying rabid twat.

    27. J. Joy

      So, he hates his father for spending so much time making money but pretends to love him so he can enjoy all the benefits his father's money gives him. I don't even know a word for that level of hypocrisy.

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    29. Stronkest Icefairy

      I'm a gay crossdresser and I hate this video just as much as I hate muslims

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      Some people don't have any of your privileges , be grateful for what you have

    31. Emeralds fire

      Im muslim,my parents dont do that

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      They're removing dislikes.. Sad.

    33. nik maknojia

      For those who decide to judge any religion should know it depends on what part of the world you are raised. I am a Shia Muslim and I was raised in India. Not a single time in my life was I ever forced by my parents to do anything against my wish and yes parents do have opinions, wishes etc like my father wanted me to became a doctor but he always told me do what you want and always supported me while my mother is definitely quick to judge but that's because mothers are always like that they will try to meddle in every part of your life as they care too much about their kids emotionally. Either way I moved to USA when I was 15 and what I noticed was my parents and my friends parents were exactly the same even though most of my friends are white. So it all depends where you raised not the religion imo.

    34. ProPizzza

      kill yourself. Please kill yourself you fucn weeb

    35. Pierson Goke

      Yeah and those parents he hates are probably paying for his 50,000 dollar a year tuition... good luck kid. The worlds tough. It's not suppose to be easy. Everyone's got it bad. How about you stop dragging your parents in front of a million people and just live your life to the fullest.

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      how can I dislike twice?

    39. Hanzo Zer0

      Curious. Did he come out to his sisters? If so, what was their take on his sexual orientation?

    40. Carlos Castillo

      He should get fucking beaten 😎😎😎 stupid liberal 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸#MAGA

    41. Maria khalil

      Im muslim every body hear im muslim

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      fuck you

    45. Maria khalil

      Im muslim every body hear im muslim

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    47. all in one

      Just like they said you are mentally ill

    48. huzema mahmood

      I am a Muslim too and I am very religious

    49. The Last Nigger on Earth

      Maybe they should blame themselves for raising a little douche

    50. aesthetic peach

      I am muslim too and mya parents never do that this is strange ?